This is a difficult world. This is how parents can raise resilient children
When Devon B. was noon, the snowflakes started to fall, prompting the school to call Devon mother. Can she come to pick up the child? The mother said Devon was OK to walk. The home was only half a mile from the school. When Devon treks in the snow, her mother received several calls about her parents. Should she walk alone in this weather?
“In this case, when the possibility of danger is small, giving children a lot of independence is much better,” said Melinda Wenner Moyer, whose journalist and author Melinda Wenner Moyer, is “Hello, Bercuel World! Science-based! Science-based strategy! Science-based strategy to keep children good kids in a horrible era. We need to provide a little bit of counsel to keep children confident and stable. Parents are going to prepare for the future and parents should help their offspring learn how to cope with others and develop important abilities.
Children can cope better when they learn how to be kind to themselves. Self-compassion translates into reducing anxiety, stress and depression, and being kind to others. Resilience, ability to deal with adversity, and moving forward after failure or disappointment are also crucial to children. Understanding the need for rest and recovery makes children unable to accept permanent stressful states, thereby eroding happiness. Over time, developing these resources will provide some protection from substance abuse and addiction, suffering from the scourge of people who lack coping skills.
What can parents do? Moyer suggests giving children vocabulary to discuss their feelings and making it clear that sadness or depression is not an abnormality, but a part of life. Relieve performance stress and normalize failures by sharing your own struggles. Avoid jumping in on various signs of pain, as children interpret this intervention as a sign of their own incompetence. Additionally, as excessive parental involvement reduces the child’s motivation and disrupts school performance, stay away from wandering and tracing the child’s tracking. And resist the false notion that danger lurks in every turn, allowing your child to take reasonable risks and allowing him to squirm. In the process, model the behavior you want to promote: show self-compassion, use matter responsibly, and don’t apologize for rest. Moyer provides more advice on research recommendations on improving children’s coping ability.
Learning how to connect with others is crucial, especially when fractures in the United States and online activities replace face-to-face interactions. Children need help build compassion and compassion for others and skills in building stable relationships and healthy curiosity.
